Bad Mom?

Tara my 12 year old has been home all week saying she had a headache. (We went through this when she was 9 and I told her she needed to wear her glasses -then found out she had mono) So this morning when there was no fever I told her she had to suck it up. We all hurt, no one LIKES getting out of bed and deal with it. When her teacher saw her, she mentioned that I should probably take her to the doctor as her son had the same symptoms several years ago and had meningitis. So she goes and guess what... Sinus Infection & an Ear infection. SO am I a bad mom cause I never believe she is sick?